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Are you a true introvert?

"With introvert nature of ourselves, we might think that oneself is more than sufficient to sustain this whole life."

I might be wrong in most of the cases that I'm about to write or I might be true in some cases. But, this is my personal experience from where I realized that, "I'm not introvert".

Like every individual thinks or believes that they are introverts with the kind of life they deal or live with, it's most often been misunderstood about oneself; but believed what's written or said about introvert nature. Yes, we do love solidarity with thyself, live, think and act accordingly. But in all this, what we fail to understand is, "We build strong emotions unknowingly."

I want to emphasize more on emotion and feelings part. And how they can turn everything in such a way that everything seems "needy and greedy to the moment". Once it breaks the pure nature of any emotion or feeling, it gets dissolved just like salt in water. And it takes enough time to rebuild that trust or might not rebuild the trust at all.

I feel that, "No one can live with oneself all their life". We need love, we need physical touch and above all, we need someone out there to keep an eye on us. Yes, we do think or realize sometimes that we should be left alone. Also, we do need support to speak out and express what we are going through in our lives sometimes; and being introvert, we hesitate to speak out because we think that one cannot understand what our exact emotions are. But going through these emotions individually makes you realize that everyone needs a support in every individual's life. And the moment I realized this, I told myself that I'm not an introvert anymore.

Now ask yourself, "Why do we think one cannot understand introvert?". Might be because we lost the trust or one doesn't have that "someone" to whom they can share their emotions without being judgmental. Lost trust might have deeper roots which I consider and that might impact at greater level. Totally agree. But again, this body of ours needs human touch and human emotions, a true hope and faith with the future. Without these, we might become a man made machine with a life that can be torn into bits and pieces if unnecessary.

What makes me feel sad is that, when introverts (who think they are) or anyone lose true hope with bad relationship, they start to build a reflecting character on what they trusted before. Love, it's pure in its nature. It's not love that's impure. It's the mindset of people which is impure. How is it even a fair point to evaluate everyone and be judgmental with one or two mindsets? If that's what we believe in, with every moment of life, we start making decisions that takes us to a desert or void where either you can see all sand or nothing at all. And in either cases, we will be left alone. But that's not what we are. That's not the nature we are built with. Remember that we do feel pain and happiness and if we can stand on ourselves without any emotion, why at all care about pain and happiness? They should be thrown out too because these come with either people or things. And if it's dependent, remember that you're not a true introvert. Because you still depend.

Yes, it's a personal choice to live one's life the way they want. But we need to understand that some should be left as constants; which are true and pure with nature and some as variables; which can be evaluated or changed with experience. Mismatching with what is what can create enough mind puzzles and riddles where the path to gate goes missing. Eventually, we need to eat what we sow.

Just for once, ask yourself, "Are you a true introvert?"

Introvert Nature



Money -- People

Remember this:
"Relations die before money"

Doesn't matter how much you love!
Doesn't matter how much you care!
Nothing matters before money;
Because
Without money, your love and care doesn't exist.

You do what shouldn't!
You speak what you shouldn't!
You be what you wouldn't!
And
You fear when you shouldn't!
Money my Love.... M.O.N.E.Y it is!

People say, "You're not capable"!
People say, "You're such a loser"!
People say, "You're poor"!
People say, "You're cheap"!
People say.. People say..
And,
In the end, they just fucking say that;
-
"You're hunger of money".

People my friend.. C.H.A.M.E.L.E.O.N they are..!!


I'm ST (Scheduled Tribe)

What do you think of yourself? You know better than Dr B. R. Ambedkar who received Bharat Ratna and wrote India's Constitution? Or you know more than what High Court and Supreme Court judges know? Do you even know about what you are against?

Do you even know what statistics say? Do you know what percentage of your people live in India or your place? Or do you know what percentage of reservation has been given to your class? Do you think Ministry of Social Justice and Empowerment committee (India) is a committee of fools and making you a fool?

What do you want to spread by posting pictures on Facebook and writing answers on Quora? You want likes and upvotes for what you posted and wrote or just want to divide people? Politicians are doing enough in this regard and you..being young blood, is doing what your ancestors did. 


You have guts??... Be loud. Prove to Indian Government that it's Constitution is wrong and outdated. But before doing that, walk on every stone. If not, slap yourself for criticizing your constitution.

You have money? Your parents have? Then why don't you ask you or your parents to distribute the money and make everyone equal in your country? What is the need of BPL (Below Poverty Line) when you do that? Then why is Government calculating BPL? Do you want poor to be poor? If not then offer your status and then ask government for one religion.

Yes. I have been criticized and mocked by my own friends. But here I'm, standing tall and challenging you to deliver at least an inch of change. You can't and you'll never because the one who suffered and bounced is the one who remembers what they were and they'll be the one who stands and delivers the change.

Yes, I'm Palithya Uma Maheswar Naik and I belong to Scheduled Tribe, lives in India.